CORE-RESILIENCY

CORE RESILIENCY PRIMER

Welcome to our Core Resiliency Primer--an immersive preview of the nuts & bolts of what goes into our course curriculum for Core Resiliency training. Here you can get a glimpse of why we offer one of the best resiliency training programs in North America. Our resiliency training is both science based and field tested by public safety professionals, mental health professionals, military veterans, and civilians working in high risk professions.


We recommend you follow the order of the menu above by clicking through the sections to discover the fascinating world of core human resiliency and how adopting the discipline of certain principles and strategies has been proven to increase, strengthen, and preserve levels of mental, physical, and spiritual resilience.


Although these sections do not cover the entirety of our 3-day Core Resiliency training, it does give you a framework for some of the key components. If you are interested in being a student of this course or becoming certified to teach it, visit our training page for more information.

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CORE RESILIENCY

There has never been a time where we have known more about the brain and body than now. We know more about trauma and its effects on the brain and body, and we know more about what is most effective in responding to it.


The science of human resiliency is part of this education and innovation, and goes well beyond what we have ever thought or known before now. We know now more than ever that being tough enough has less to do with resiliency than mindset and perspective. If the question of what can any person do to elevate their level of resiliency has brought you here, rest assured, it is the evidenced based science that makes all the difference, and, like any skill, resiliency can be improved over time through neurological practices and principles, regardless of whatever weakness one may begin with.


Before we jump into the science behind our Core Resiliency training, we first need to define what we mean by "Core Resiliency."

When we refer to “core,” we mean the three main components of our human influence: mental, physical, and spiritual. Mental resiliency is our neurological approach, physical refers to the resiliency of our body--both external and internal, and spiritual relates to our consciousness, which can be with or without religious expression. Our training is a balance of these three elements; although more time is spent on the mental, since it has an astronomical influence on the health of the physical and spiritual more than vice-versa.



HOW DO WE DEFINE RESILIENCY?

We believe true resiliency should involve far more than simply surviving the storm, only to be the same person on the other side of it, left with damage control and cleaning up the aftermath. Our Core Resiliency training involves far more than teaching people to tough it out through self-motivation and heroic valor, especially in populations where high risk is a part of the job. Our focus on resiliency training is getting people away from a mindset of simply enduring, and towards a mindset of adversity being an opportunity to gain positive change from negative experiences.

Source: Merriam-Webster Dictionary Online

Pursuing happiness while avoiding conflict sets us up for great disappointment and leaves us feeling like we have nothing to approach life with but a fear of what may go wrong. If we define happiness as some destination that is free from problems, then we allow the existence of problems to rob us of happiness. True joy and happiness comes with a resilient mindset that it can not only coexist with adversity, but actually feed off of adversity, so that it thrives rather than just survives. We shift from a fear conditioned perspective of what can go wrong during any battle we face, to a vision that focuses on what can go right, while managing the possibilities of what can go wrong in the peripheral. Antifragile resiliency maintains an awareness of potential risks and consquences, while giving more credence to solutions and desired outcomes, a topic we cover more under the principle of solution oriented thinking.


Now that we've covered one of the primary influences on what type of resiliency we teach, let's examine in more detail the three core areas of resiliency mentioned before (mind, body, spirit) and how we address them in our curriculum...


THE CORE OF CORE RESILIENCY

MENTAL RESILIENCY

Mental resiliency refers to the brain's ability to adapt to stress, trauma, or adverse conditions and and to what extent and benefit it recovers from them. It involves the neural processes and structures that enable individuals to maintain or regain cognitive, emotional, and physical functioning despite experiencing challenges or difficult situations. This type of resiliency emphasizes the brain’s capacity for neuroplasticity, which allows it to reorganize itself and form new neural connections in response to environmental stressors.


The neurology of a person's resilience depends upon the following factors:


  • Neuroplasticity
  • Stress Response & Regulation
  • Emotional Regulation
  • Cognitive Flexibility
  • Memory & Learning
  • Recovery from Trauma or Injury
  • Social Support & Connection
  • Mindfulness & Mental Rehearsal
  • Exercise, Nutrition, and Physical Health

FACTORS OF MENTAL RESILIENCY

  • Neuroplasticity

    Neuroplasticity is the brain's ability to change and reorganize itself by forming new neural connections. This process allows the brain to adapt to new experiences, learn new skills, and recover from injuries or trauma. When the brain experiences stress or trauma, neuroplasticity can help it recover by creating new pathways or strengthening existing ones. This adaptability is crucial for neurological resiliency, as it enables the brain to rewire itself in ways that improve cognitive and emotional functioning.

  • Stress Response and Regulation

    Neurological resiliency involves the brain's ability to regulate the stress response. The amygdala, which processes emotions, and the prefrontal cortex, which governs decision-making and emotional regulation, play central roles in how the brain responds to stress. People with neurological resiliency can effectively manage the physiological and psychological effects of stress, preventing these reactions from becoming overwhelming or leading to mental health disorders.

  • Emotional Regulation

    One of the key components of neurological resiliency is the ability to regulate emotions in the face of adversity. The prefrontal cortex, which controls reasoning and decision-making, helps modulate the activity of the amygdala, which is responsible for emotional reactions. Emotional regulation allows individuals to process emotions like fear, anger, or sadness in healthy ways, without being overwhelmed by them.

  • Cognitive Flexibility

    Cognitive flexibility refers to the ability to adapt one’s thinking in response to changing circumstances or new information. This trait is critical for resilience because it allows individuals to adjust their strategies when faced with unexpected or difficult situations. In a resilient brain, cognitive flexibility enables the person to reframe challenges, think creatively, and maintain a balanced perspective in difficult times.

  • Memory and Learning

    The brain's ability to learn from past experiences and apply that knowledge to new situations is a key aspect of neurological resiliency. The hippocampus, which plays a major role in memory formation, helps individuals store and recall information that can be used to navigate future challenges. Resilient individuals can learn from their past experiences (including failures and setbacks) without being trapped by negative memories or trauma.

  • Recovery from Trauma and Injury

    Neurological resiliency also involves the brain's ability to recover from physical trauma or psychological injury, such as from concussions, strokes, or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). In some cases, the brain can repair or compensate for damaged areas through neuroplasticity, though recovery depends on the severity of the injury.

  • Social Support and Connection

    Neurological resiliency is not only about the individual brain's capacity but also the influence of external factors, such as social support. Positive relationships and a sense of community have been shown to promote brain health and resilience. Supportive relationships can buffer the effects of stress and trauma, fostering healthier brain functioning. Oxytocin, the "bonding hormone," plays a crucial role in this process, helping to reduce stress and promote well-being.

  • Mindfulness and Mental Rehearsal

    Practices like mindfulness and mental rehearsal have been shown to enhance neurological resiliency by improving the functioning of brain regions involved in emotional regulation, attention, and decision-making. These practices can increase gray matter in the brain, particularly in areas like the prefrontal cortex, which are associated with higher-order cognitive functions such as executive control, planning, and emotional regulation. Regular mindfulness practice helps individuals become more aware of their thoughts and emotions and better able to manage stress.

  • Exercise, Diet, and Physical Health

    Physical exercise has profound effects on neurological resiliency. Regular exercise promotes neurogenesis, enhances cognitive function, and helps regulate the brain’s stress response. It has also been shown to increase levels of brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), a protein that supports the growth and survival of neurons. Physical health, including proper sleep, nutrition, and stress management, is integral to maintaining a resilient brain.

PHYSICAL RESILIENCY

Physical resiliency refers to the body's ability to withstand, recover from, and adapt to physical stress, injury, or illness. It encompasses the physiological processes that allow individuals to maintain or regain their physical health, strength, and stamina after experiencing challenges such as physical exertion, trauma, or chronic conditions. Physical resiliency is essential for maintaining overall well-being, and it can be developed and enhanced through lifestyle choices, training, and self-care practices.


The key components of physical resiliency that we cover in our Core Resiliency training are as follows:


  • Strength & Endurance
  • Recovery & Adaptation
  • Immune Function
  • Flexibility & Mobility
  • Pain & Injury Management
  • Balance & Coordination
  • Mental & Emotional Influences
  • Nutrition & Supplementation

FACTORS OF PHYSICAL RESILIENCY

  • Strength & Endurance

    Muscle Strength: The ability to generate force is foundational to physical resiliency. Strength training (e.g., weightlifting, resistance exercises) helps build muscle mass and improves the body's capacity to handle physical tasks and recover from stress or injury. 

  • Recovery & Adaptation

    Physical resiliency involves the body’s capacity to recover from physical exertion, injury, or illness. Recovery is an essential component because it allows tissues to heal, muscles to rebuild, and the body to adapt to greater challenges.

  • Immune Function

    Physical resiliency is also influenced by the body’s immune system, which protects against illness and infections. A strong immune system helps individuals recover from minor illnesses and prevent more serious health issues.

  • Flexibility & Mobility

    Flexibility refers to the range of motion of joints and muscles. Regular stretching, yoga, or mobility exercises can improve flexibility and prevent injury by ensuring that muscles and joints function optimally under physical stress.

  • Pain Management & Injury Resilience

    Physical resiliency includes the body's ability to manage pain and recover from injuries. Injuries, whether minor or severe, are an inevitable part of physical activity and daily life, but resilience helps individuals recover from them and return to their regular routines.

  • Balance & Coordination

    Physical resiliency involves maintaining balance and coordination, which is crucial for injury prevention, functional movement, and overall physical performance.

  • Mental & Emotional Factors

    Although we have mentioned before that “toughness” has less to do with resiliency than the other factors we mention, intrinsic toughness does play a role, as some people are naturally more physically or mentally tougher than others. In a sense, these people have a head start on resiliency, but are also often more likely to be blindsided by circumstances that overwhelm them despite this foundational fortitude, while others who are not naturally tough, often work harder to overcompensate using the strategies we mentioned in the mental resiliency section. 

  • Nutrition & Supplementation

    One of the most neglected areas of resiliency influence is in nutrition and its effects not only on the health of the body, but the health of the mind, as certain deficiencies are directly related to mental interference and weaknesses. In fact, we cover specific deficiencies that are common in high risk/high stress jobs like public safety.

SPIRITUAL RESILIENCY

Spiritual resiliency is more about our consciousness than religious beliefs. Although one's beliefs have significant influence, even those without religious beliefs are still spiritual beings, as our biology is not what distinguishes who we are. Our consciousness is our unique expression of who we are, our personalities, and our belief system. One can have spiritual beliefs without subscribing to any religion; although religion gives many a common bond with others who believe the same. We cover spiritual resiliency because it is a very common factor that comes up in studies of people who have suffered tremendous trauma and faced spiritual questions related to the adversity that ensued. Issues of the spirit have been commonly brought up by combat veterans and first responders alike in mental health research studies, so it is imperative that we not ignore this influential factor of resiliency.

Spiritual resiliency refers to the ability to maintain or regain a sense of purpose, hope, and inner strength in the face of challenges, adversity, or trauma. It involves drawing on one's spiritual beliefs, values, and practices to navigate life's difficulties, find meaning in suffering, and ultimately emerge stronger and more grounded. Spiritual resiliency is an important aspect of overall well-being, particularly for individuals facing significant stressors, such as military personnel, healthcare workers, and those who experience personal or collective loss.


Some key elements of spiritual resiliency that we cover in our Core Resiliency training:


  • Connection to a Higher Power or Purpose
  • Finding Meaning in Suffering
  • Faith and Hope
  • Self-Reflection and Inner Peace
  • Supportive Spiritual Community
  • Compassion and Service
  • Forgiveness and Letting Go
  • Adaptability and Acceptance


FACTORS OF SPIRITUAL RESILIENCY

  • Connection to a Higher Power or Purpose

    Spiritual resiliency often involves a belief in a higher power, divine purpose, or a greater meaning in life. For many, this belief provides comfort and direction during times of hardship. This belief most often falls into a belief in God, the universe, nature, or simply a deep sense of interconnectedness with others and the world around them.

  • Finding Meaning in Suffering

    People who are spiritually resilient are often able to find meaning or purpose in their suffering. This could mean viewing hardship as an opportunity for growth, a test of faith, or a way to develop greater empathy for others. It helps to reframe the narrative of adversity, seeing it as part of a larger, divine plan or as a way to cultivate personal strength and character.

  • Faith and Hope

    Spiritual resiliency is often linked to having faith, not just in a higher power but also in the belief that difficulties will pass or that there is hope for a better future. This sense of hope can offer strength when everything else seems uncertain or overwhelming. It is often the belief that one’s spiritual path or faith community will provide the necessary support.

  • Self-Reflection and Inner Peace

    Regular spiritual practices such as prayer, meditation, or mindfulness can help individuals cultivate inner peace, self-awareness, and emotional balance. These practices promote emotional regulation and can help people stay grounded during stressful or traumatic events.

  • Supportive Spiritual Community

    Being part of a spiritual or religious community can foster a sense of belonging and support. Spiritual resiliency is often strengthened by shared rituals, communal prayer, or counseling with spiritual leaders. A sense of community provides emotional comfort, encouragement, and solidarity during times of crisis.

  • Compassion and Service

    An important aspect of spiritual resiliency is developing compassion for others and engaging in service to help alleviate suffering. Helping others can create a sense of purpose, reduce feelings of isolation, and help individuals transcend their personal struggles. Compassionate acts often lead to emotional healing and a deepened sense of connection with others.

  • Forgiveness and Letting Go

    Spiritual resiliency involves the ability to forgive oneself and others, which can be crucial in moving past trauma or emotional pain. Holding on to resentment, anger, or guilt can hinder the healing process. Many spiritual traditions emphasize the power of forgiveness as a way to free oneself from the emotional weight of negative experiences.

  • Adaptability and Acceptance

    Spiritual resiliency is also about adapting to the circumstances of life and accepting what cannot be changed. Through spiritual teachings, individuals may find wisdom in accepting life as it comes, without excessive resistance, and learning to adjust their mindset in the face of challenges.

This sums up the elements of what we consider the “core” of Core Resiliency, the goal being to practice proactive efforts to address all three with the goal to maintain a healthy balance between them. It is also important to keep the perspective that all three cross support and influence one another, so that, if one area is neglected to a state of deficiency, the other areas will decline in competency, as well.



NEUROPLASTICITY: THE KEY TO HUMAN RESILIENCY

In our initial introduction to Core Resiliency training, we begin with some of the foundations of why it works. After all, if one doesn't understand its power and mechanisms, they are more likely to give up and not follow through the course of practice, as the neurological changes Core Resiliency depends upon initially seem mundane and lacking immediate results. Without an understanding of the reasons why it works, the fallout rate of practitioners will increase.


Neuroplasticity is one of the most significant powers that we have available to us to adapt to change, especially when change means adversity, so it is important to have a basic understanding of it as being one of the reasons we can proactively increase our resiliency over time.


Neuroplasticity refers to the brain's ability to reorganize itself by forming new neural connections throughout life. This concept challenges the earlier notion that the brain's structure and function are fixed after a certain age, suggesting instead that the brain is adaptable and can change in response to learning, experience, and injury.

Neuroplasticity involves six main factors of influence on Core Resiliency that vary from mental to physical changes:


Structural Changes: Neuroplasticity involves physical changes in the brain, including the growth of new dendrites, synapses, and even neurons (neurogenesis).


Functional Changes: These changes can alter the way neurons communicate with each other, leading to changes in brain function and behavior.


Learning and Memory: Neuroplasticity plays a crucial role in learning and memory formation. When we learn new skills or information, the connections between neurons strengthen, enhancing our ability to recall and apply knowledge.


Adaptation to Injury or Disease: Following injury or in response to disease, neuroplasticity allows the brain to compensate for lost function by reorganizing neural pathways or by recruiting undamaged areas to take on new roles.


Experience-Dependent Plasticity: Specific experiences, such as learning a musical instrument or mastering a new language, can induce neuroplastic changes in relevant brain regions.


Critical Periods: While neuroplasticity is present throughout life, certain developmental periods, known as critical periods, are particularly sensitive to environmental influences and learning experiences.

Ongoing research continues to explore the mechanisms of neuroplasticity and its implications for various aspects of brain function and health. Advances in neuroimaging techniques, such as functional MRI (fMRI) and diffusion tensor imaging (DTI), allow researchers to observe neuroplastic changes in real-time and assess their impact on cognition and behavior. In fact, these imagining innovations are what allowed researchers to prove what was once only a theory of neuroplasticity, countering the long held belief that our brains become fixed at a certain age and brain cells cannot regenerate.


In summary, neuroplasticity highlights the brain's remarkable ability to adapt and change throughout life in response to experiences and environmental influences. Embracing this concept opens doors to new strategies for enhancing cognitive function, improving recovery from brain injuries, and understanding the complexities of mental health and neurological disorders.

ANTIFRAGILE RESILIENCY

One of the influences on our philosophy of core resiliency comes from the concept of “antifragility,” derived from the teachings of Nassim Nicholas Taleb, who wrote the book, Antifragile: Things That Gain from Disorder.


Taleb's antifragility references a property of systems, organisms, or entities that become stronger or improve when exposed to stress, disorder, volatility, or shocks. The book explores the idea that many systems in life, from the economy to biology, thrive in chaos and uncertainty. Taleb argues that we should design systems, organizations, and lives that benefit from disorder rather than try to make them immune to it. The book is highly critical of modern risk management, which often tries to avoid disorder and uncertainty. Instead, Taleb suggests embracing randomness, variability, and chaos as sources of strength.

Antifragile resiliency can do far more than simply teach first responders to get through the challenges and risks they face—it teaches them to acquire significant benefits from having gone through them, and, perhaps more importantly, it carrys over into their personal lives in such a way that their marriages take on the concept, their personal goals in life, and their overall quality of life gains a leverage they did not have before applying this principle.


In the culture of public safety, which is a greater advantage: first responders who simply endure or first responders who grow from whatever they endure?


Our world is full of antifragile systems that thrive and improve from being exposed to stress. These include biological organisms (which become stronger through exposure to stressors like exercise), certain businesses (that innovate and grow during economic downturns), and ideas or technologies that evolve and improve in response to criticism or challenges.

PRINCIPLES OF ANTIFRAGILITY


Mechanisms

Antifragility often arises through mechanisms like redundancy, decentralization, variability, and learning from feedback. These mechanisms allow systems to adapt and evolve in response to adversity, thereby becoming stronger over time.


Contrast with Fragility

Fragile systems are those that break down or deteriorate under stress or uncertainty. Antifragile systems not only resist damage but use challenges as opportunities for growth and improvement.


A real world example of this would be athletic competition—athletes who win are athletes who have suffered loss and taken what they have learned from the loss and applied it to practice under the guidance of coaches. Training and practice are simply examples of “controlled failure” under circumstances outside the game day performance, where it counts. In order for athletes to perform better and win more, they adapt to failure and loss by becoming better. No successful athlete simple endures a losing game by making it to the last buzzer or whistle—they take their mistakes to the practice field afterwards and seek the improvement needed to win.


Mindset Shift

Embracing antifragility involves shifting from a mindset of avoiding risks and volatility to one of actively seeking challenges and opportunities for growth. It encourages experimentation, innovation, and resilience in the face of uncertainty.


The antifragility influence of our Core Resiliency training offers a powerful framework for understanding how we can not only survive but thrive in turbulent and unpredictable environments, providing insights into resilience, adaptation, and sustainable growth. Resiliency training has become a trending topic in many high risk professions and the incorporation of antifragility alone is one of the hallmarks of what sets us apart from many other forms of resiliency teaching that is found.


THE PREDICTIVE 6

FACTORS OF RESILIENCY

Our Core Resiliency training isn't some system of random exercises to influence the mind, body, and spirit. It is a strategic system of practices and principles that focus on six specific domains that have been scientifically shown to be the central factors that determine our overall resiliency.


Not only is this model supported by credible research, but we can actually measure which of these six domains are our strongest and weakest. We find this science in the Predictive 6 Factor Resilience Model, which is one of the biggest influences on the self-awareness and self-regulation of our Core Resiliency training.



The Predictive 6 Factor Resilience Model is a framework developed by Dr. Paul Stoltz, an expert and leading researcher on resilience and adversity. This model identifies six key factors that contribute to an individual's resilience:


  • Control
  • Impact
  • Reach
  • Endurance
  • Alignment
  • Equanimity


The Predictive 6 Factor Resilience Model provides a comprehensive framework for understanding and developing resilience across different domains of life. By assessing and strengthening these six factors, individuals can enhance their capacity to navigate adversity, achieve personal and professional goals, and maintain well-being amid challenges. This model is widely used in organizational development, leadership training, and personal coaching to foster resilience and adaptive behavior in individuals and teams. It is relatively new to the field of public safety, but we are determined to change that.


In our Core Resiliency training, we adapt these six factors as the following domains:


  • Vision
  • Composure
  • Reasoning
  • Health
  • Tenacity
  • Collaboration


All of these factors combine to achieve the common characteristics of mentally resilient individuals: adaptability, optimism, emotional regulation, problem-solving skills, and social support connections. Cycle through the tabs below to discover how these six domains make up our overall resiliency:

THE 6 DOMAINS OF CORE RESILIENCY

VISION

Vision talks about what drives us - our personal sense of purpose and direction in life. This also includes our vision for what we aspire to be like as individuals, along with a sense of confidence that we can achieve bold goals that we set for ourselves. Flowing from this is a sense of self-worth and personal efficacy, along with our own values and ability to be committed and decisive. 


These provide a guiding light to help us stay on the right path in the long term. This is particularly important during difficult times, as a clear vision and goals will help you to identify opportunities, determine the right actions and bounce back to be stronger than before. 

COMPOSURE

Composure is about how effectively we can regulate our emotions during difficult or stressful situations. It is at these times that we need to have enough self-awareness to notice how we are responding, and to apply techniques to keep us in a constructive mindset. 


Also critical here is our view of stress and ability to manage both acute and everyday stress. Being able to maintain our composure during tough situations helps us to more effectively identify opportunities so that we can keep working towards goals and stay focused on what is important. 

REASONING

Reasoning plays a major role in how much confidence we have in our ability to solve unexpected problems and adapt to sudden change. This includes our ability to be resourceful, think critically, identify opportunities and take an action-oriented approach to best work towards our own and shared goals. 


This also extends into proactively identifying opportunities so we can instigate change and innovate to create an environment where we can thrive together with others. Here the ability to be creative in a stressful situation can be a powerful and highly regarded personal attribute. 

HEALTH

Health is a foundational domain of resilience. Various studies have shown how much an impact your own physical health can have on your wellbeing, simply because it has such a strong effect on your experience of life when everything is not working as it should. 


Chronic health issues can be the most difficult to deal with as it has an ongoing effect on our lives. We have some amount of control over this through the lifestyle we choose to lead and how proactively we invest in the health of both the body and brain. 

TENACITY

Tenacity is about the ability to persevere through difficulty and quickly getting back on track. Whether it is an illness or a setback at work, this indicates a measure of hardiness that helps us to keep going, keep trying and to bounce back quickly. 


During these situations, it is important to have a realistic sense of the limits of control and maintain accurate expectations of what we can achieve. This helps us to not expect too much of ourselves, but still know ourselves well enough to recognise the strength to be able to push forward and endure. 

COLLABORATION

Collaboration is about the critical need of the human brain to have close and secure connections with others. This includes having support networks within friends, partners, family, colleagues, even pets can have a profound effect. 


This connection we have with others is not just about our need for support, but also our ability to relate to others and be able to support them in turn. Collaboration includes being able to manage the perception of others along with our own perspectives so that we stay in a space where we can effectively work with those around us and have meaningful relationships. 

DANIEL GOLEMAN &

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

While many have referred to our human core as mind, body, spirit, and emotions, we place emotions into the mind category, even though emotions can greatly influence the body and spirit and vice versa. A common reference you may have already noticed is the regulation of emotions as being essential to resiliency. If we cannot regulate our emotions, they will regulate us—it's that simple. The lack of competent emotional regulation will inevitably become a challenge to one's resiliency, so we consider this a priority topic in our Core Resiliency training.


For the sake if our specific curriculum, emotional regulation is largely dependent upon emotional intelligence, and our chief influence comes from the world renowned work of Daniel Goleman, a psychologist and science journalist who is best known for his work on emotional intelligence and its impact on leadership, relationships, and personal development.

Goleman popularized the concept of emotional intelligence in his 1995 book "Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ," where he defines emotional intelligence as the ability to recognize, understand, manage, and utilize emotions effectively and argues that it plays a critical role in success, both personally and professionally.


According to Goleman, emotional intelligence consists of several components, which we cover in our training:


  • Self-awareness: Recognizing one's own emotions and their effects.
  • Self-regulation: Managing one's emotions and impulses.
  • Motivation: Channeling emotions towards achieving goals.
  • Empathy: Understanding and considering others' emotions.
  • Social skills: Managing relationships to move people in desired directions.


Emotional intelligence has been shown in much research to have a huge impact on leadership. In fact, many business leaders in fortune 500 companies have been shown to demonstrate high levels of emotional intelligence. It is, therefore, no surprise that Goleman's work has highlighted the importance of emotional intelligence in leadership effectiveness. Leaders with high emotional intelligence are better able to inspire and motivate others, build strong relationships, and navigate complex social dynamics, not to mention exhibiting strong measures of resiliency.

THE 6 DOMAINS OF EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

SELF-AWARENESS

This domain involves recognizing and understanding one's own emotions, strengths, weaknesses, values, and motivations. Self-awareness allows individuals to accurately assess their reactions to stressful situations, which is crucial for managing and adapting effectively.

SELF-REGULATION

Self-regulation encompasses the ability to manage and control one's emotions, impulses, and behaviors. It involves techniques such as emotional self-control, adaptability, and the ability to stay calm under pressure. Self-regulation helps individuals respond to challenges in a constructive manner rather than being overwhelmed by emotions.

MOTIVATION

Motivation refers to the drive and persistence to achieve goals, coupled with the ability to manage setbacks and maintain optimism. Resilient individuals are motivated to overcome obstacles, learn from failures, and stay committed to their objectives despite difficulties.

EMPATHY

Empathy involves understanding and considering others' emotions, perspectives, and feelings. It enables individuals to build strong relationships, provide support to others in distress, and navigate social interactions effectively. Empathetic individuals can also seek help and support when needed, which contributes to their resilience.

SOCIAL SKILLS

Social skills encompass the ability to communicate effectively, build and maintain relationships, collaborate with others, and resolve conflicts. Resilient individuals leverage their social networks for emotional support, seek guidance and advice, and contribute positively to their communities.

COGNITIVE FLEXIBILITY

Cognitive flexibility refers to the ability to adapt and adjust one's thinking and perspective in response to changing circumstances or challenges. It involves creativity, problem-solving skills, and the capacity to see multiple sides of a situation. Resilient individuals are able to reframe adversity, learn from setbacks, and find innovative solutions to problems.

AMYGDALA HIJACK

Amygdala Hijack

Besides the breakthrough work on emotional intelligence Daniel Goleman covered in his book, he is also responsible for the term and concept of amygdala hijack—a phenomenon that is quite familiar to first responders and therapists alike; therefore, it is important to understand its nature and, in particular, its influence on resiliency.


Amygdala hijack describes an immediate and overwhelming emotional response that bypasses the rational mind (prefrontal cortex) and occurs before conscious thought takes place. The amygdala, a part of the brain involved in processing emotions, particularly fear and aggression, becomes activated in response to a perceived threat or stressor.



When the amygdala perceives a threat, it can trigger a rapid and intense emotional reaction, such as anger, fear, or anxiety. This reaction often occurs automatically and without conscious control, overriding the more deliberate and reasoned responses that might come from the prefrontal cortex—the part of the brain responsible for higher cognitive functions.


An amygdala hijack can lead to impulsive behavior, irrational decision-making, and heightened emotional responses that may not align with the actual level of threat or danger present in a situation. It can interfere with effective communication, problem-solving, and interpersonal relationships.


Goleman emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence in managing and mitigating amygdala hijacks. Developing the skills we teach in Core Resiliency, such as self-awareness, self-regulation, and empathy, can help individuals recognize their emotional triggers, manage their responses, and make more reasoned decisions even under stress.


Understanding amygdala hijack is crucial to the foundation we build our Core Resiliency upon and plays a chief influence on leadership, conflict resolution, and personal development. By learning to identify and regulate emotional responses, individuals can improve their ability to navigate challenging situations effectively and maintain constructive relationships, allowing better regulation of emotional reactions, particularly in high-stress or threatening situations where immediate responses may be driven by unconscious emotional triggers.


Similar to the PR6 domains of resiliency, Daniel Goleman and his co-authors Richard Boyatzis and Annie McKee outlined six domains of emotional intelligence that contribute to resilience in their book "Primal Leadership". These domains help individuals cope with adversity, manage stress, and maintain emotional balance, and we address them in our Core Resiliency training as targets of development in emotional intelligence.


Dr. Bessel van der Kolk &

The Body Keeps the Score

In tandem with the influence of Daniel Goleman's work on emotional intelligence and amygdala hijack, an equal influence on our Core Resiliency curriculum is the groundbreaking book “The Body Keeps the Score" by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, a renowned psychiatrist and trauma expert who has been researching and treating trauma as far back as the Vietnam war. His book has virtually become a trauma bible for both therapists and those exposed to tremendous levels of trauma. Van der Kolk brought to the forefront of science that trauma is not just a psychological phenomenon, but also a physiological one.


Beyond the brain, traumatic experiences can become lodged in the body's sensory and hormonal systems, affecting how a person feels and behaves. Trauma can alter brain functions, particularly in areas related to emotional regulation, memory, and the sense of self. This can lead to symptoms such as hypervigilance, dissociation, and difficulty in forming trusting relationships.

Trauma disrupts the body's stress response system, leading to chronic hyperarousal (feeling constantly on edge) or hypoarousal (feeling emotionally numb or disconnected). These disregulations can manifest as anxiety, depression, or other mental health disorders.


Van der Kolk also related that trauma often manifests in physical symptoms such as chronic pain, gastrointestinal issues, and autoimmune disorders. These somatic symptoms are linked to the body's response to stress and trauma, and have a high rate of misdiagnosis by medical doctors who often react with pharmaceutical approaches that simply mask the symptoms and do not address the cause.


The book also discusses various therapeutic approaches that can help individuals heal from trauma, including trauma-focused therapy, mindfulness techniques, exercise, and other somatic therapies. These approaches aim to help individuals reconnect with their bodies and process traumatic memories in a safe and supportive environment.


Van der Kolk also highlights the importance of social support and cultural context in healing from trauma. Supportive relationships, community involvement, and cultural practices can play a crucial role in recovery. This influence falls under the “collaboration” domain that we cover in our training.


Overall, "The Body Keeps the Score" provides valuable insights into how trauma affects both the body and mind, and offers hope through understanding and effective treatment approaches aimed at restoring a sense of safety, resilience, and well-being. We not only incorporate much of its teaching into ours, but we highly recommend our students read his book to gain a significance advantage in their pursuit of Core Resiliency.

STEPHEN PORGES &

POLYVAGAL THEORY

In establishing the science of the mind-body connection and its importance to being a foundational understanding and influence on human resiliency, we must address the connection between the brain and nervous system as playing the central role of transmission in brain-body relationship, and this brings us to the Polyvagal Theory and the neuroscientist who made it famous, Stephen Porges.


Polyvagal Theory is a theory of the autonomic nervous system (ANS) developed by Stephen Porges, in the 1990s. It provides a novel perspective on how the autonomic nervous system regulates the body’s response to stress, safety, and social interaction. At the core of Polyvagal Theory is the idea that the vagus nerve, the longest cranial nerve in the body, plays a crucial role in regulating physiological states and behavior in response to environmental cues, and this knowledge can also be crucial to the growth and regulation of our resiliency.

Polyvagal Theory and Core Resiliency


The work of Stephen Porges and his Polyvagal Theory has also led to the development of new therapeutic techniques and has been widely integrated into clinical practices that aim to address trauma, improve emotional regulation, and enhance social bonding.


The vagus nerve is a critical component of the parasympathetic branch of the autonomic nervous system (ANS). It runs from the brainstem through the neck, chest, and abdomen, influencing a wide range of bodily functions, such as heart rate, digestion, and respiratory rate. Polyvagal Theory focuses on how this nerve, particularly its two branches, influences our emotional and physiological states.


Polyvagal Theory offers a new lens through which to understand how our autonomic nervous system drives behavior, emotion, and social interaction. By focusing on the vagus nerve and its influence on stress responses, safety, and social engagement, the theory provides insights into trauma, mental health, and effective therapeutic practices. It has become a foundational concept in understanding how our bodies and minds respond to the world around us and this understanding is one of the principle foundations we build core resiliency upon in our curriculum.

OUR 3 PRIMARY STRESS RESPONSE SYSTEMS

Porges proposed that the autonomic nervous system operates in a hierarchical way, with three primary systems that govern our responses to stress and safety:


Ventral Vagal Complex (Social Engagement System)

The ventral vagal system is associated with feelings of safety, calm, and social connection. When this system is activated, the body is in a state conducive to social interaction, relaxation, and learning. It slows the heart rate and promotes a sense of calm, allowing us to engage with others and process information.


Sympathetic Nervous System (Fight-or-Flight Response)

The sympathetic nervous system is activated in response to perceived danger or threat. It prepares the body for fight or flight by increasing heart rate, redirecting blood flow to muscles, and releasing stress hormones like adrenaline. This state is essential for survival in situations requiring quick action, but prolonged activation can lead to chronic stress and anxiety.


Dorsal Vagal Complex (Freeze or Shutdown Response)

The dorsal vagal system is activated in extreme threat or trauma situations when fight-or-flight responses are not possible or effective. This system can lead to immobilization, dissociation, and a "shutdown" response, where the body reduces energy expenditure and may even lower heart rate significantly. This state is often seen in severe trauma or helplessness and is associated with feelings of disconnection and numbing.


Neuroception

A critical concept in Polyvagal Theory is neuroception—the subconscious process by which the brain detects safety, danger, or life threat in the environment. This detection influences which part of the autonomic nervous system is activated. Neuroception operates without conscious awareness, allowing us to respond rapidly to environmental cues that signal safety or danger.

Porges emphasizes that the parasympathetic system, particularly the ventral vagus nerve, is key to our ability to socially engage. When we feel safe, our bodies are more likely to engage in calm social interactions. The "social engagement system" includes facial expressions, vocal tone, and eye contact, all of which are influenced by the ventral vagus nerve and are important for creating connections with others.


Polyvagal Theory has been particularly influential in understanding the effects of trauma and stress on the body and mind. Porges suggests that trauma, especially when experienced in early childhood, can result in disregulation of the autonomic nervous system. When individuals are stuck in a state of hyperarousal (sympathetic activation) or hypoarousal (dorsal vagal shutdown), it can manifest as anxiety, depression, PTSD, and other mental health disorders.


The theory has informed practices in trauma therapy, helping to create approaches that focus on regulating the nervous system. Techniques like breathwork, mindfulness, and certain forms of body-centered therapy aim to activate the ventral vagal system to help individuals feel safe and connected again.


Polyvagal Theory places a significant emphasis on the importance of feeling safe for emotional regulation. According to Porges, the body’s ability to self-regulate (i.e., shift between the three states) is heavily influenced by how safe we feel in our environment and relationships. A supportive, calm, and safe social environment promotes ventral vagal activation, encouraging positive social interactions and emotional resilience.

SOLUTION ORIENTED THINKING

Solution-oriented thinking empowers individuals to tackle challenges effectively, foster innovation, and achieve positive outcomes in various aspects of life and work. It encourages not only resilience, but creativity, and a proactive approach to problem-solving.


We examine principles from two books by Bill O'Hanlon, one of the innovators of solution oriented thinking: Do One Thing Different and Solution Oriented Therapy.

Solution-oriented thinking is a mindset focused on identifying and implementing solutions to problems or challenges rather than dwelling on obstacles or difficulties. Not to be confused with the idea of simply thinking positively, when we apply solution orientation to resiliency, we use specific strategies in our Core Resiliency training, some of which directly correlate to some of the Six Domains of Resiliency we refer to in our curriculum:


REASONING


Learning from Feedback: Solution-oriented thinking involves learning from feedback and adjusting strategies as needed. It values continuous improvement and sees setbacks as opportunities for growth and refinement (Antifragile Theory)


Focus on Solutions: Instead of getting bogged down by problems, solution-oriented thinking emphasizes looking for ways to address and resolve them. It shifts attention from what went wrong to what can be done to make things better.


Problem-Solving Skills: Solution-oriented thinkers are adept at analyzing problems, breaking them down into manageable parts, and identifying potential solutions. They use logical reasoning and creativity to explore different approaches.


TENACITY


Action-Oriented:   This mindset is action-oriented, focusing on taking practical steps towards achieving goals or overcoming challenges. It encourages proactive behavior rather than passive acceptance of difficulties.


Positive Outlook: It involves maintaining a positive and proactive attitude, believing that there is always a way to improve a situation or find a way forward. This optimism helps in generating creative ideas and maintaining motivation.


COLLABORATION


Working with Others: Solution-oriented thinking often involves working collaboratively with others to brainstorm ideas, gather diverse perspectives, and implement effective solutions. Collaboration harnesses collective intelligence and increases the likelihood of success.


Long-term Vision: While focusing on immediate solutions, solution-oriented thinking also considers long-term implications and sustainability. It aims to create lasting improvements and prevent future issues.


Overall, solution-oriented thinking empowers individuals and teams to tackle challenges effectively, foster innovation, and achieve positive outcomes in various aspects of life and work. It encourages not only resilience, but creativity, and a proactive approach to problem-solving.

"DO ONE THING DIFFERENT"

"Do One Thing Different" by Bill O'Hanlon is a practical and insightful guide designed to help individuals make changes in their lives by focusing on small, actionable steps. The core idea is that making a single shift in behavior, thinking, or routine can lead to significant, positive changes. O'Hanlon argues that rather than diving into deep analysis of problems, sometimes the most effective way to change is to alter one element in your approach.


O'Hannon's principle of making just one change in our lifestyle habits or our approach to challenges is incorporated into our Core Resiliency training in such a way to create a butterfly effect of both increased resiliency and problem solving. When coupled with Daniel Goleman's principles of emotional intelligence and antifragility, solution oriented principles can work wonders for anyone who could benefit from an increase in their resilience.


"Do One Thing Different" provides a refreshing approach to change by focusing on simplicity, action, and experimentation. It provides a way to overcome obstacles in life by making one intentional shift and building on that change over time, rather than attempting to tackle everything at once.


The key principles of "Do One Thing Different" that we cover in our Core Resiliency training are as follows:


The Power of Small Changes

O'Hanlon suggests that instead of feeling overwhelmed by large problems or goals, people can create lasting change by focusing on small, specific actions. Changing one habit, response, or routine can create a ripple effect, leading to bigger transformations over time.


Challenge Assumptions

The book encourages questioning your assumptions and habitual ways of thinking. Often, we believe that things need to be fixed in big, dramatic ways, but O'Hanlon suggests that it’s the small, consistent changes that lead to success. For example, if you’ve always approached a problem in a particular way (like overthinking it), trying something completely different (like taking action immediately) can produce surprising results.


Focus on Strengths, Not Just Problems

O'Hanlon emphasizes the importance of focusing on what’s working in your life and building from that, rather than only fixing problems. This perspective helps to build momentum by acknowledging progress, no matter how small.


Practical Steps to Take Action

   Step 1: Identify the issue – Clearly define the situation or behavior you want to change.

   Step 2: Choose one small thing to do differently – Choose something simple but significant that is within your control. It                         could be changing the way you react in a certain situation or trying a new approach to a daily task.

   Step 3: Take the step – Implement the change, and see how it affects your behavior or outlook.

   Step 4: Reflect and adjust – Notice how the change influences your emotions or interactions, then adjust as needed.


Doing the Opposite

A technique O'Hanlon often suggests is doing the "opposite" of what you typically do. For instance, if you normally avoid conflict, try standing your ground in a respectful way. If you are usually quiet in social settings, try initiating a conversation. This can help break cycles of avoidance or habitual behavior that may be limiting personal growth.


Success Is About Experimenting

O'Hanlon frames life as an experiment. When you try something new, you’re not locked into it — you can evaluate how it worked and make another adjustment. This mindset reduces the fear of failure and opens up more possibilities. It shifts the focus from "getting it right" to "experimenting and learning."


The Role of Hope and Belief

One of the fundamental beliefs of the book is that even small changes, when practiced consistently, can provide hope. This hope can empower individuals to take more positive steps, which compounds into larger improvements over time.


Use Positive Reinforcement

When you make a small change, it's essential to reinforce it positively. Celebrate even the tiniest victories, as this will increase your motivation to continue making further changes. For example: Suppose you're struggling with time management. Instead of diving into deep analysis or trying to overhaul your entire routine, O'Hanlon’s advice would be to change one small thing. Instead of trying to overhaul your entire schedule, you might start by using a timer to break tasks into shorter, more manageable time blocks. This small action could help shift your behavior and create momentum to tackle larger productivity changes.

SOLUTION ORIENTED THerapy

Bill O'Hanlon’s Solution-Oriented Therapy is a refreshing, practical, and empowering approach that focuses on what clients can do to improve their lives rather than getting bogged down by why they are struggling. The therapy builds on the client’s strengths and emphasizes small, achievable steps toward meaningful change. It's particularly helpful for those who may feel stuck or overwhelmed by traditional therapy methods that dive deeply into past issues. Instead, O'Hanlon encourages a shift in perspective toward hope, action, and the future.

SOLUTION ORIENTED RESILIENCY

Our Core Resiliency training teaches a variation of O'Hanlon's therapy principles as applied to self-regulation--an essential tool of Core Resiliency and conjoined with self-awareness. The following core concepts make up the curriculum section we cover:


Focus on Solutions, Not Problems

Unlike our traditional mindset of approaching problems by analyzing and dissecting the past, Solution-Oriented Resiliency focuses on what is working in the present. It assumes one already has the resources and strengths they need to overcome their current challenges. Examples of how we teach this are given in the next section.


Self Expertise

In Solution-Oriented Resiliency, a person views themselves as the expert in their own life. We do not teach them to become their own therapists, since self-awareness and self-regulation strategies are not replacements for professional therapy, if it is needed; however, we do teach how one can explore existing solutions or perspectives they might not have recognized by putting themselves in the position I asking what advice they would give to a close friend or family member who was facing the same challenge and asked for your expertise. They then take this information and turn it into self-talk. Not only does this strategy uncover possible missed solutions and perspectives, but it creates a sense of self-empowerment by not feeling dependent entirely (or at all) on the therapy or advice from others.


The Miracle Question:

One famous technique in Solution-Oriented Therapy is the Miracle Question, which we adapt into our Solution Oriented Resiliency section. The Miracle Question is a key technique and is designed to help clients envision a future where their issues have been resolved and to identify the steps or actions that would lead them there. It does this by asking a hypothetical question, such as:


"If a miracle happened overnight and your problem was solved, what would be different tomorrow?"


This question encourages the person to:


  1. Visualize the desired outcome: It invites them to imagine a world where the problem no longer exists.
  2. Identify specific changes: It helps articulate small, achievable steps that would indicate the problem has been resolved.
  3. Shift the focus to solutions: By imagining what would be different, they can start to recognize what they are already doing (or could do) that is leading toward positive change.


The Miracle Question helps people break free from the limitations of their current situation, shifts their focus away from the problem, and opens up new possibilities for progress. It can be used for a wide range of issues, including anxiety, depression, relationship problems, and personal growth challenges.


Small, Achievable Goals:

Solution-Oriented Resiliency encourages setting small, realistic goals that can realistically be achieved. This approach avoids being overwhelmed with large, unattainable objectives. By achieving smaller goals, one can experience short bursts of success, which builds a momentum of confidence and motivation to create positive change.


Change Happens in Small Steps:

O'Hanlon and other Solution-Oriented therapists believe that change doesn’t have to be dramatic or overwhelming. Small, incremental steps can accumulate and create significant transformation over time. This self-awareness principle helps focus on small actions or changes that improve the client's situation, rather than attempting to fix everything at once.


Strengths and Resources:

Instead of focusing on deficits or weaknesses, Solution-Oriented Resiliency emphasizes strengths and resources that one already has. We teach specific questions that prompts one to recognize their current abilities in contrast to past successes and coping strategies, in order to solve current problems.


Future-Focused:

Solution-Oriented Resiliency looks forward to the future and encourages a person to imagine their life after the problem is resolved. By focusing on what they want rather than what they don't want, clients are empowered to create a vision for a positive future.

STRATEGIES OF SOLUTION ORIENTED RESILIENCY

Scaling Questions

A self-awareness strategy of solution orientation is asking yourself scaling questions, such as:


"On a scale of 1 to 10, how confident am I that I can solve this problem?

"On a scale of 1 to 10, how much will this impact me a year from now? Five years? Ten years?


These questions help assess progress and motivate clients to take steps toward improvement, however small they may be.


Coping Questions

Asking yourself questions that explore how you have managed or coped with the issue in question in the past, highlighting your resilience and strengths. Some examples we use:


"How did I manage to get through that tough time?"

"What helped me cope when I was going through that?"

"What things made me feel worse or put me at a disadvantage?"


This strategy builds confidence in one's own ability to overcome difficulties, and contributes to both the Tenacity and the Reasoning resiliency domains from the Six Domains of Resiliency.


Goal Setting and Action Plans

We may have a tendency to overthink during times of struggle and this can overwhelm the Reasoning Domain, leading to burnout and brain fog, not to mention depression. Establishing some specific goals with regard to desired outcomes during challenges and taking action on those goals is an excellent counter to being paralyzed by burnout or depression.


We do this by creating actionable goals through practical steps that are specific, achievable, and measurable.


The Use of Language

In much the same way that we teach intentional strategic goals, the language used in Solution-Oriented Therapy is also intentional and strategic. When we use the language of self-talk/self-imagination, we avoid any formality of use that pathologizes ourselves, and, instead, we use positive, future-oriented language. This solution oriented language would manifest in such ways as:


"What would it look like if I were doing better?" instead of "Why me? Why am I struggling with this?"

"What kind of future would I have if I had less disregulation going on?" instead of "How will this disorder harm my future?"


The Results of Solution-Oriented Resiliency


The more frequently practiced these principles become, the more significant the resiliency grows and the adept one becomes at discovering viable solutions to the challenged faced.


  • Efficiency: Strategies that are brief and time-limited, focusing on achieving meaningful change in less time.
  • Empowerment: Focusing on the one's strengths and resources empowers them to take control of their own solutions.
  • Practical and Goal-Oriented: Provides concrete, actionable strategies for improvement, leading to real-world results.
  • Hope and Positivity: Fosters a sense of optimism by focusing on future possibilities, rather than past limitations.


COMBAT MINDSET

On Combat: The Psychology and Physiology of Deadly Conflict in War and in Peace is a book by Lt. Col. Dave Grossman, a former U.S. Army Ranger and psychologist. First published in 2004, it explores the psychological and physiological effects of combat on soldiers, first responders, and civilians. Grossman delves into the mental and physical stress that comes with deadly conflict and how it impacts behavior, decision-making, and overall well-being.


We use many of the principles in his book to teach a combat mindset of resiliency towards conflicts of life and the risks of violence and injury first responders face.

In light of the antifragile resiliency we mentioned previously, a combat mindset is poised to prepare or recover from both physical and mental risks with  benefits that go beyond mere survival (pre-trauma). In turn, we convey self-regulation strategies that evaluate recovery from experiences that subject people to prolonged risk (post-trauma).


The psychological effects of violence and killing on soldiers are examined in Grossman's book, including issues like trauma, moral injury, and the effects of repeated exposure to violence or the aftermath of violence, including its victims. Much of Grossman's examinations of the physiology of combat explains the body’s response to extreme stress, including the fight-or-flight response, adrenaline, and other biological changes.

THE 4 COMPONENTS OF COMBAT MINDSET

We detail how these reactions can help or hinder individuals in common first responder situations by addressing the following points:


The Warrior’s Mindset

Grossman discusses how warriors develop a mental approach to violence, and how training and mindset can help soldiers cope with combat stress and improve their performance under pressure. We implement this into our training in such a way as to guard and preserve the humanity of the individual so that they can experience or administer violence, without the spillover of its negative effects into the personal lives of the first responders.


The Psychology of Killing

One of the most notable aspects of the book is Grossman’s exploration of the psychological barriers to killing in combat. He explores how soldiers are often conditioned to overcome their natural aversion to killing, and the effects this can have on them after combat. We bring this matter to light in our moral injury resiliency training, as moral injury is more common in such encounters than post-traumatic issues.


Training and Preparation

Grossman emphasizes the importance of proper training to prepare individuals for the psychological and physiological challenges they will face in combat. We examine what the military has found to work effectively in pre-combat resiliency training and allude to a first responder's version.


Post-Combat Reactions and Recovery

The book also discusses the difficulties soldiers face in reintegrating into society after their time in combat and the long-term effects of trauma. We relay this to the post-recovery or continued recovery from PTSD, moral injury, and accumulative stress disorders first responders face in their "urban homeland" combat experiences.



THE 5 STAGES OF GRIEF

The five stages of grief, often referred to as the Kübler-Ross model, were introduced by psychiatrist Elisabeth Kübler-Ross in her 1969 book "On Death and Dying." These stages are not meant to be a linear progression, but rather a framework to understand the range of emotions that individuals may experience when coping with significant loss. While Kübler-Ross initially described these stages as sequential, research and clinical practice have shown that grief is often more complex and doesn't always follow a predictable order or timeline. Individuals may move back and forth between stages, skip stages, or experience emotions that don't neatly fit into these categories.

THE Kübler-Ross model

We bring the Kübler-Ross model into our Core Resiliency training because many trauma experts like Dr. Bessel van der Kolk find the same stages exist in post-trauma experiences. By identifying these stages with relation to resiliency and post-trauma growth, individuals can avoid being blindsided by confusing emotions and abnormal behavior, while responding with strategies to help them cope and manage such dynamics to sustain healing throughout the process. We have found that familiarizing yourself with these stages is far better than simply presenting a list of post-traumatic disorder symptoms.


The Kübler-Ross model of the five stages of grief are as follows:


Denial

Initially, individuals may deny the reality of the loss. This serves as a protective mechanism to buffer the immediate shock and overwhelm of the situation. They may feel numb, unable to accept the truth of what has happened.


Anger

As the reality of the loss sets in, individuals may experience intense emotions such as anger and frustration. They may question "Why me?" or direct their anger towards others, themselves, or even the person who has died.


Bargaining

In this stage, individuals may attempt to negotiate or bargain with a higher power, or even with themselves, in an attempt to reverse or mitigate the loss. This can involve thoughts like "If only..." or "What if I had done something differently?"


Depression

As the full impact of the loss is realized, individuals may enter a period of deep sadness and despair. They may withdraw from others, experience feelings of emptiness or hopelessness, and struggle with sleep, appetite, or energy levels.


Acceptance

The final stage involves coming to terms with the reality of the loss. This does not necessarily mean feeling happy or okay with the loss, but rather finding a way to integrate it into one's life and adjust to a new normal. It's about reaching a place of emotional peace and stability.

POST-TRAUMATIC GROWTH

Post-traumatic growth refers to the positive psychological changes that some individuals experience after encountering adversity, trauma, or significant life challenges. It highlights how people may develop new perspectives and strengths, ultimately leading to greater well-being.


While the concept of Antifragility taught in our Core Resiliency involves more of a preemptive mindset of positive adaptation towards adversity, post-traumatic growth extends this concept beyond the experience of mere damage control during the "aftermath," and into a transformational framework of positive growth.

Post-traumatic growth refers to the positive psychological changes that some individuals experience after encountering adversity, trauma, or significant life challenges.



Post-traumatic growth as a theory was first developed by psychologists Richard Tedeschi, PhD, and Lawrence Calhoun, PhD, in the mid-1990s, and holds that people who endure psychological struggle following adversity can often see positive growth afterward. It highlights how people may develop new perspectives and strengths, ultimately leading to greater well-being.

THE 5 DOMAINS OF POST-TRAUMATIC GROWTH

To evaluate whether and to what extent someone has achieved growth after a trauma, Tedeschi and Calhoun devised a self-reporting scale called the Post-Traumatic Growth Inventory (PTGI) (Journal of Traumatic Stress, 1996), which identifies positive responses in five domains:


Personal Strength

Individuals often report feeling stronger, more resilient, and capable of handling future challenges after trauma. They recognize their ability to endure difficult circumstances and grow from them.


Relating to Others

Trauma can deepen relationships, making individuals more empathetic, compassionate, and understanding toward others. Some people find a greater sense of connection and intimacy with others after experiencing trauma.


New Possibilities

Post-traumatic growth can lead to a sense of new opportunities or directions in life that might not have been considered before. This can involve personal growth, career changes, or pursuing goals and dreams that were previously put on hold.


Appreciation of Life

Following a traumatic event, many individuals develop a heightened sense of appreciation for life and the small moments of joy. This domain involves living more fully, recognizing the preciousness of life, and embracing both its beauty and fragility.


Spiritual Development

Some individuals experience spiritual growth or a deepened sense of faith and meaning in the aftermath of trauma. This can include reevaluating one's beliefs, fostering a sense of purpose, or finding a deeper connection to a higher power or philosophical worldview.


These domains can vary from person to person, and not everyone who experiences trauma will experience post-traumatic growth in all of these areas. Post-traumatic growth is also not an automatic outcome but depends on various factors like coping strategies, social support, and personal characteristics; by and large, post-traumatic growth is primarily the result of proactive efforts of antifragility, which is one of the most important factors of our Core Resiliency teaching.



VIKTOR FRANKL

Viktor Frankl was an Austrian neurologist, psychiatrist, Holocaust survivor, and the founder of logotherapy, a form of existential analysis; however, Frankl is perhaps best known for his book Man's Search for Meaning, in which he reflects on his experiences as a concentration camp prisoner and explores the role of meaning in human life and how it applies to human resiliency. His work and ideas have had a profound impact on psychology, philosophy, and the field of existential therapy.

Viktor Frankl was a professor of neurology and psychiatry at the University of Vienna, and wrote extensively about the intersection of psychology, spirituality, and human existence. Prior to these accomplishments, Frankl was imprisoned in Nazi concentration camps, including Auschwitz, from 1942 to 1945. During this time, he lost his wife, parents, and brother, but he survived the horrors of the Holocaust.


His experiences in the camps profoundly influenced his psychological theories, and his work has influenced not only the field of psychology, but also philosophy, literature, and education. His emphasis on meaning has been adopted by many practitioners in various fields, particularly those working with individuals facing grief, trauma, or existential crises.


Frankl's book, Man’s Search for Meaning has become one of the most influential books of the 20th century and is often recommended to individuals facing personal crises or seeking a deeper understanding of life’s challenges. His teachings continue to inspire people around the world, particularly those who are facing life’s most difficult challenges. His message of hope, resilience, and the importance of finding meaning in life resonates deeply, especially in times of suffering.

FRANKL'S CONCEPTS OF RESILIENT SURVIVAL

Viktor Frankl emphasized several concepts that we integrate into our Core Resiliency training as key foundations authentic resiliency is built upon:


Logotherapy

Frankl developed logotherapy, a therapeutic approach that emphasizes the search for meaning as the central human drive. Logotherapy is often summarized by the phrase: "He who has a why to live can bear almost any how," attributed to Friedrich Nietzsche. Frankl believed that even in the most challenging circumstances, people can find meaning in their lives.


According to logotherapy, the lack of meaning (often referred to as the existential vacuum) can lead to psychological distress, anxiety, and depression. This sense of emptiness can be addressed by helping individuals discover a sense of purpose, even in difficult or painful situations.


Man's Search for Meaning

Frankl’s most famous work, Man’s Search for Meaning (originally published in 1946 as Ein Psychologe Erlebt Das Konzentrationslager), reflects on his experiences in the concentration camps and explains his psychotherapeutic approach.

He observed that those who managed to survive the brutal conditions were often those who found some meaning or purpose in their suffering, whether it was a hope for the future, the memory of loved ones, or a strong sense of personal or spiritual values. Frankl and others who survived also practiced habitual imaginations of life beyond their present suffering, as though assuming they would survive no matter the odds against them.


The Role of Suffering

Frankl believed that suffering is an inevitable part of life, but it can also be a source of meaning. He argued that people could endure great suffering if they could find a reason or purpose for it, even if the purpose was simply to maintain dignity in the face of hardship.


This perspective was grounded in his own experiences, where he witnessed that some people in the camps, despite their suffering, chose to help others or maintain a sense of hope and purpose.


Freedom of Choice

Frankl’s philosophy emphasizes human freedom—the idea that individuals always have the ability to choose their attitude in any given situation. Even in the face of suffering, he believed people have the power to choose how they respond to it, which can be a source of strength and resilience.


This concept is a central element of his therapeutic practice, where patients are encouraged to recognize that they have the freedom to find meaning, even in the most difficult circumstances.


Existential Vacuum & Self-Transcendence

Frankl described the existential vacuum as a state of emptiness or a lack of purpose, which he saw as a root cause of many mental health problems, including depression and anxiety. He believed that true meaning is often found when people look beyond themselves, either by helping others or by dedicating themselves to a cause greater than their personal suffering.



MORAL INJURY

In a culture that has been saturated with references to PTSD and its symptoms, Moral Injury is a relatively newer term. Moral injury refers to the psychological, emotional, and spiritual distress that arises when a person’s actions, or the actions of others in a situation, violate their deeply held moral or ethical beliefs. While the term was originally used in the context of military veterans, it has since been expanded to include various professions, such as healthcare workers, first responders, court staff, child protective services, and others in roles where moral challenges are common.

Moral injury presents an altogether different threat to first responders than PTSD, in that its effects accumulate over time in a subtle way that seems innocuous when experienced, causing first responders to tuck it away as just being “one of the things I hate about a job I love.” Rather than the dramatic manefestation that PTSD presents, moral injury accumulates from fragments of low-level stress and trauma that becomes heavier over time if left unresolved, leading to a decomposition of the quality of life.


WOUNDED BY MORAL DILEMMAS

Moral injury causes a tremendous amount of damage by way of guilt and shame, even though the action behind it was “by the book.”


A police officer who is forced to take a life by way of “suicide by cop” can suffer moral injury because he or she is burdened by the concept that this was a person in need, not a criminal who really intended to hurt anyone.


A firefighter who holds down a parent in the front yard to prevent them from running into a burning house to save their trapped children can suffer Moral Injury because he or she is burdened by the concept that they too would likely need restraint if it were their home and their children.


Moral injury can occur when a first responder is being investigated, leaving them feeling betrayed by their department because they did nothing wrong.


While moral injury is distinct from PTSD, and does not even have to involve trauma at all, it tends to make a person more susceptible to PTSD, not to mention substance abuse or suicide. In fact, much of the PTSD diagnosed of combat veterans is directly linked to moral injury.


MORAL INJURY VS SPIRITUALITY

One of the most damaging distinctions of moral injury to an individual's core wellness is spiritual. Nearly everyone with a religious faith who experiences moral injury with suffer moral conflict with their faith. God becomes more distant and unreachable because the person feels less worthy, more guilty, even deserving of or hopeless to escape damnation or ever be forgiven.


More studies are needed, but moral injury may be one of the most influential reasons first responders who once attended religious activities fall away from attending at all, especially over the course of their career.


MORAL INJURY IN THE CULTURE OF FIRST RESPONDERS

Since much of the published research on moral injury is of combat veterans, we examine how it specifically shows up among first responders, and how they can become more resilient to its effects. Some key elements of moral injury to first responders that we consider are:


Definition and Mechanisms of Moral Injury

Moral injury often arises when individuals either participate in, witness, or fail to prevent events that deeply violate their ethical beliefs. Examples include harm to civilians, witnessing trauma in the line of duty, or experiencing betrayal by leadership. The psychological response often includes guilt, shame, or a profound sense of betrayal, leading to a range of mental health issues, including depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts.


Prevalence of Moral Injury in First Responders

Police officers may experience moral injury when faced with situations where they feel unable to protect victims or when they witness violence they can’t prevent. In addition, conflicts between their professional role and personal values can contribute to moral injury.


Firefighters and EMS may experience moral injury in cases where, despite their best efforts, lives are lost, or when they feel helpless in tragic situations (e.g., child fatalities in fires).


Mental Health Impact of Moral Injury

Moral injury is often linked to higher rates of depression, guilt, shame, and suicidal ideation. For first responders, these emotions can be particularly acute due to the public and communal nature of their roles. Moral injury can accompany PTSD but is distinct in that it is not triggered by fear but by moral conflict. Individuals with moral injury may struggle with self-forgiveness and disconnection from their own values.


Therapeutic Approaches for Moral Injury

Approaches like Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) and Adaptive Disclosure are used to help individuals process and reconcile their moral conflict. Therapy focuses on understanding the source of guilt and shame and fostering self-forgiveness. Recent research has also highlighted the benefits of group therapy and peer support in helping individuals share their experiences and validate each other’s emotional responses. Narrative therapy, where individuals reframe or rewrite their experiences, is also proving effective in treating moral injury.


Preventative and Supportive Measures

Studies show that resiliency training programs like ours that teach ethical decision-making and emotional intelligence help prepare first responders for difficult situations and provide them with a framework to process morally challenging events in a way that is resistant to feelings of inner injustice. Supportive department leadership, debriefing sessions, and a positive organizational culture also play a vital role in mitigating the risk of moral injury. Healthy marriage and family relationships are also significantly shown to build high levels of resiliency against moral injury.

MORAL INJURY RESEARCH

Despite moral injury being a relatively newer term related to mental health in public safety, Research on moral injury has expanded significantly in recent years. Originally identified in military contexts, the concept has been applied to various fields, most notable being healthcare and first responders. Key findings point to the powerful psychological and emotional toll of moral injury, particularly in terms of depression, addiction, marital problems, and suicide risk, as well as the importance of social and organizational support in recovery. Current research is exploring innovative therapeutic interventions, such as CBT and meaning-focused approaches, as well as the role of spirituality and community in the healing process. Future studies are likely to continue focusing on understanding the nuances of moral injury across different populations and developing more effective, tailored treatments.


Here is an overview of key research studies and findings on moral injury that have influenced our Core Resiliency curriculum:


The Origins of Moral Injury: Defining the Concept

Moral Injury and the Military Veteran: A Contextual Exploration of the Moral and Ethical Dimensions of Combat Trauma


This foundational study by Litz and colleagues is one of the first to articulate the concept of moral injury. The researchers defined moral injury as the distressing psychological, social, and spiritual impact resulting from the perpetration, witnessing, or failure to prevent acts that violate one’s deeply held moral beliefs or values. They emphasized that moral injury is distinct from PTSD, as it is linked specifically to moral transgressions and ethical conflicts in extreme situations like combat.

 

Molendijk, T., Kramer, E. H., & Verweij, D. (2018). Moral Aspects of “Moral Injury”: Analyzing Conceptualizations on the Role of Morality in Military Trauma. Journal of Military Ethics, 17(1), 36–53. https://doi.org/10.1080/15027570.2018.1483173


Moral Injury in Veterans: Effects and Treatment

Moral Injury in Veterans of War


This study explored how moral injury manifests in military veterans. It found that veterans who experienced moral injury were at a higher risk for PTSD, depression, and suicide, as moral injury often leads to feelings of guilt, shame, and betrayal. The researchers suggested that treatment for moral injury should focus on addressing the emotional and spiritual aspects of the injury, including forgiveness, reconciliation, and meaning-making, alongside traditional PTSD treatments.


Bryan, C. J., Bryan, A. O., Anestis, M. D., Anestis, J. C., Green, B. A., Etienne, N., ... & Ray-Sannerud, B. (2016). Measuring moral injury: Psychometric properties of the moral injury events scale in two military samples. Assessment, 23(5), 557-570.


Moral Injury in Healthcare Workers: A Growing Concern

Moral Injury in Healthcare Professionals: A Systematic Review


This systematic review focused on moral injury among healthcare professionals, particularly in the context of the COVID-19 pandemic. The study found that healthcare workers, particularly those dealing with life-or-death decisions in resource-limited settings, often experience moral injury. Factors such as insufficient resources, ethical dilemmas in patient care, and the inability to provide ideal care were significant contributors. The review highlighted the need for mental health interventions tailored to moral injury in healthcare settings.


Rabin, S., Kika, N., Lamb, D., Murphy, D., Am Stevelink, S., Williamson, V., ... & Greenberg, N. (2023). Moral injuries in healthcare workers: what causes them and what to do about them?. Journal of Healthcare Leadership, 153-160.


Moral Injury and Post-Traumatic Growth

The Posttraumatic Growth Inventory: Measuring the positive legacy of trauma


This most cited study on post-traumatic growth examines the relationship between moral injury and post-traumatic growth (the positive psychological change experienced as a result of adversity). The researchers found that moral injury can be a precursor to PTG when individuals engage in meaning-making processes, such as forgiveness or rebuilding their sense of purpose. The study emphasized the potential for growth, resilience, and recovery despite the painful nature of moral injury.


The study concludes five domains of post-traumatic growth: New Possibilities, Relating to Others, Personal Strength, Spiritual Change, and Appreciation of Life.


Tedeschi, R. G., & Calhoun, L. G. (1996). The Posttraumatic Growth Inventory: Measuring the positive legacy of trauma. Journal of traumatic stress, 9, 455-471.


Moral Injury and Suicide Risk in Veterans

Examining the association between moral injury and suicidal behavior in military populations: A systematic review


This meta-analysis explored the relationship between moral injury and suicide risk in military veterans. The study found that moral injury was a significant predictor of suicidal thoughts and behaviors. Veterans who reported moral injury also had higher rates of depression, hopelessness, and PTSD. This highlighted the importance of addressing moral injury in suicide prevention efforts for veterans.


Jamieson, N., Carey, L. B., Jamieson, A., & Maple, M. (2023). Examining the association between moral injury and suicidal behavior in military populations: A systematic review. Journal of religion and health, 62(6), 3904-3925.


Moral Injury and the Role of Spirituality

Spiritual features of war-related moral injury: A primer for clinicians


This review explored the intersection of spirituality and moral injury, emphasizing that moral injury often leads to spiritual distress. The study argued that for many individuals, particularly veterans, moral injury is not just a psychological issue but also a spiritual crisis. Interventions that include spiritual care—whether through religious, existential, or meaning-focused approaches—were found to be potentially helpful in the healing process.


Wortmann, J. H., Eisen, E., Hundert, C., Jordan, A. H., Smith, M. W., Nash, W. P., & Litz, B. T. (2017). Spiritual features of war-related moral injury: A primer for clinicians. Spirituality in Clinical Practice, 4(4), 249.


Moral Injury and the Impact of Organizational Culture

Occupational moral injury and mental health: systematic review and meta-analysis


This study examined the role that organizational culture plays in the development of moral injury. It found that rigid, hierarchical organizations like the military or healthcare systems can exacerbate feelings of moral injury when individuals feel compelled to act in ways that conflict with their personal ethics. Supportive, flexible environments that encourage open communication and ethical reflection were shown to mitigate the impact of moral injury.


Williamson, V., Stevelink, S. A., & Greenberg, N. (2018). Occupational moral injury and mental health: systematic review and meta-analysis. The British Journal of Psychiatry, 212(6), 339-346.


Moral Injury and Community Support

Moral injury among first responders: Experience, effects, and advice in their own words


This qualitative study explored how community and social support can play a role in recovering from moral injury. It found that both formal support systems (such as therapy or support groups) and informal networks (family, friends, peers) are essential in helping individuals process and heal from moral injury. Veterans and first responders, in particular, reported feeling more resilient when they had access to social connections that understood the unique nature of their distress.


Knobloch, L. K., & Owens, J. L. (2024). Moral injury among first responders: Experience, effects, and advice in their own words. Psychological services.


Moral Injury and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Impact of killing in war: A randomized, controlled pilot trial


This pilot study examined the use of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) as an intervention for moral injury. The study found that CBT, when adapted to address moral and ethical concerns, was effective in helping individuals reframe their beliefs about themselves, their actions, and the world. The treatment helped individuals with moral injury confront guilt, shame, and anger, and work toward forgiveness and self-compassion.


Maguen, S., Burkman, K., Madden, E., Dinh, J., Bosch, J., Keyser, J., ... & Neylan, T. C. (2017). Impact of killing in war: A randomized, controlled pilot trial. Journal of clinical psychology, 73(9), 997-1012.





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